IBS-D (IBS with diarrhea/diarrhoea) is highly challenging to live with, especially when it isn’t clear what causes it. When my IBS-D hit, it totally derailed me.
The majority of people who work with me suffer with diarrhea. They have often been suffering with it for a long time, and just cannot find what causes their IBS-D.
Until they do. And the diarrhoea lessens, and then stops. Without the need for restrive diets or pills or potions of any kind.
What causes IBS with diarrhoea (IBS-D)?
IBS research traditionally links diarrhea to food and dysbiosis of the gut (gut biome imbalances).
Many IBS-D sufferers find themselves stuck on very limiting gluten-free, lactose-free, fructose free restrictive diets.
While food intolerance can certainly contribute to IBSD, in my experience there are deeper unconscious triggers running the show.
Why do I say that?
1) When IBS-D first hit, I could ONLY digest warm milk (lactose) and semolina (gluten) for weeks. So lactose and gluten were not triggering diarrhea for me.
2) Secondly, when I moved out of the trigger situation I was in, I actually stopped having diarrhoea.
However, it is not always possible or easy to move out of a situation. And through learning NLP (Neuro-linguistic Porgramming) I found this wasn’t necessary. Instead of moving out of a situation, it is possible to change the perception of it.
In my experience, IBS-D is often linked to much deeper coping mechanisms, essentially something a person wants to escape.
This can be something that they want to get away from in their present life (job pressure, responsibilities weighing on them, for example). Or diarrhea triggered by specific experiences growing up (read on for more details).
The trigger can set off the fight, fight or flee response. In my experience, diarrhoea tends to result from the flee response when it is directed inwards rather than outwards. (Physically running would be the external response. But when this is not possible, it can be directed inwards instead, rushing energy through the system and potentially creating diarrhea.)
My own journey living with IBS-D
My own IBS journey started out with diarrhoea.
Of all the IBS symptoms I have experienced it was the worst (along with food intolerance) simply because I couldn’t go anywhere without the feeling “it” might happen at any time.
It was really hard to feel self-confident and deal with IBS-D.
Luckily for me, when I moved out of the situation triggering the diarrhea, the worst of it stopped.
However it would strike and catch me off guard in situations I wanted to get out of, or that felt overwhelming at some deeper level.
Every day IBS with diarrhoea
I have worked with lovely people who suffer with diarrhoea on a regular basis, every day even. They come to me either when they can’t stand it any more and have tried everything else, or when they become scared to eat.
They notice that when they don’t eat they have less diarrhea.
But they are losing weight and getting scared.
So it’s the deeper triggers are what I focus on with clients – and what turns IBS-D around for them.
Where to start with IBS-D
If you have been living with IBS-D for some time and have no idea why, ask yourself the following questions and see what you notice:
1) Do you feel stuck in a situation in your life? Is there anywhere you feel under pressure, and want to escape?
2) Are there any patterns in your symptoms? Do they come at a particular time of day? Or in specific circumstances?
3) Is anything making you feel overwhelmed in your day-to-day life (apart from the diarrhoea itself)?
Often the answers don’t seem obvious. For example, for me running for the train and going to a trade show didn’t seem logically overwhelming to me. But at some level it was to my nervous system, and set off diarrhoea. So you may need some time to notice what is going on.
If you are serious about reversing your IBS-D, why not work with me and get my expert eyes on your IBS triggers.
And if you suffer with alternating diarrhoea and constipation, this article may give you the insight you have been looking for.